8 Things To Know Before Taking Her To The Altar

Having a good marriage life is everyone’s dream and aspiration as that is how it is supposed to be. Nonetheless, you need to put in a consented effort to achieve this by choosing the right partner. A wrong partner will not only kill your spirit but also ruin your entire life.
Divorce has been everyone’s nightmare and no one wants to reach that stage in their marriage. The fear of divorce has left most people entering into a long-term relationship without showing any kind of commitment. Though this is not the ideal situation, getting along with the wrong person can ruin your life for good. Therefore as a man, there are a lot of things you should consider before getting married to the lady you are crazy about. Never be blinded by love and though it is good to follow your heart, you need to do that wisely. There are some basic qualities a woman should possess before you think of tying the knot with her. Mostly is women who are bent on knowing such things but some men also do. So to all my nice gentlemen out there, the following are just eight of the things to know before taking her to the altar.

1. Is she family oriented?

Before asking for a lady’s hand in marriage, you should know whether she is family oriented or not. Some ladies are just good for relationships and not for marriage and taking them to the aisle will be the biggest mistake of your life. The ideal situated on of every marriage is to have a family and choosing a woman who is not family oriented may defeat your purpose of marriage from the start.

2. Is she virtuous woman?

It is not easy to find a virtuous woman, but having such luck would be a blessing to your life forever. Such a woman has everything combined including caring for her husband and children, finances and puts the home in other. She is patient, good listener, dedicated and loves wholeheartedly.

3. Does she love herself?

There is no way you can love someone who doesn’t love herself. This is going to be probably a herculean task. For someone who loves herself, the work becomes much easier she can extend that love to you and wouldn’t necessarily need someone to keep her happy. She is able to create her own space, joy, and not selfish.

4. Is she intelligent?

Talking about intelligent, I don’t mean intelligent as in academic but someone who is able to deduce grains from the chaff. A woman with good judgement and contribute to issues no matter how complex it is. Such a woman can help you take life-changing and tougher decisions and contribute effectively to your life.

5. Adjustable

No condition is permanent on this earth and you can be rich today and poor the next morning. There can also be an accident, which will result in you being disabled. The question now becomes, will she be able to adjust herself when such a condition occurs? Can she move with you from that comfortable home to a less suitable one? Can she handle the shock, the trauma when the worse happens? Getting answers to these questions is a huge step towards putting a ring on her finger.

6. Ideology

The woman you take to the aisle should surely sure your ideology and belief. Even though it is sometimes good to have diverse views, becomes more convenient when both partners are on the same path. This will go a long way to prevent future conflicts and misunderstandings.

7. Does she give you another chance?

Once you get married, it is obvious that you may one day step on her toes and would need to be forgiven. As marriage is not always rosy, the lady who will continue to forgive you no matter how many times you offend her is surely that sweetheart to spend the rest of your life with.

8. Is she committed?

One of the ultimate ways of ensuring success in marriage is when both partners are committed. It is usually not easy for a lady to show any form of committed during a relationship since she feels insecure. So once you get a committed woman by your side you trust me she is marriage material.

Conclusion

All the points above are just a few things to know about your woman before getting married to her. Per the rules of life, nothing is permanent so you need to consider all these things as you look for a life partner. Ideally, everyone seeks for a perfect marriage but that can only be in a fictional movie. Though you expect for the best, make rooms for all possible disappointments, as marriage is a human institution and mistakes are inevitable.